The easy answer is, yes, I’m not having an affair (I’m not even crushing on anyone).
Actually, I’m talking about something a little bit different than that. When I got married I promised to love, honor, and cherish my husband. Am I faithful to those vows? Am I being a loving, supportive, caring person in our relationship?
Being faithful is certainly about not doing some things, but it’s also about intentionally doing other things. Being faithful is not cheating on him, but it’s also about how I treat him today.
Are you faithful to your marriage?
Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. Proverbs 3:3 NIV