I’m trying to learn about SEO, keywords, and more. It’s a self and blog improvement thing. I’ve taken to following people who are good at this stuff (I even took a course). It wouldn’t be too smart to follow someone who doesn’t have a website or hasn’t really gotten good at using keywords. They wouldn’t be able to teach me what I want to know and practice.
The same concept applies to marriage. If you want to improve in your marriage skills, buddy up to a couple that is actually growing their marriage and doing well at it.
No, they won’t be perfect, but if they learn from their mistakes and do better, they are the ones you want to pay attention to. If they’re not married or not actively engaged in growing their marriage, they won’t be able to teach you what you want to know and practice.
Learn from those who have a strong happy marriage.
Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing. Albert Schweitzer