It would be terribly hurtful to have your husband check out other women, right?
I’m thinkin’ the reverse is true as well. I bet it would hurt your hubby plenty if he caught you checking out the guys.
Let him be your standard for handsome and sexy. Take the male eye candy off your Pinterest boards. Toss the erotica. Quit talking about that sexy actor with your girlfriends.
He’s your husband. He’s your only sexual partner. Focus your attention there in the same way you would like for him to focus on you.
Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways. Psalm 119:37 ESV