One area of friction in many marriages is communicating (or rather not communicating well) over time use issues. Missed appointments, double-booking your time, and small mixups can strain any relationship.
One helpful solution is to buy a large calendar for 2020 or set up a Google calendar both you and your husband can access.
Or you may want to meet up once a week to look over your schedules. Get all your appointment ducks in a row, schedule the important things, and look for ways to build in a little margin for yourselves and your marriage.
Communicating over time use can be especially important for the holidays and may be something you want to talk about as a habit to create in 2020.
The key is not to prioritize what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities. Stephen Covey