I have a treat for you today. Cassie of True Agape has written a post about respect. In our culture this is a challenging concept, but, lived out, it can have a powerful impact on our marriages.
Although it can be hard for us to do at times, we understand we should give love unconditionally to our husband. God unconditionally loves us and we are to do the same.
However, when we think about respect we often think about it being something that is earned. We might put conditions on showing respect. “Once he does ______ I will respect him.” Or “If he would just _____ I could respect him more.” Instead we are called to respect our man unconditionally just as we are called to love unconditionally.
In Ephesians 5:33 Paul states, “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”
I believe it is stated in this way because Paul knew that the top needs for men and women are different. For women we need to be cared for and feel loved, but for men they need to feel respected.
This verse should challenge us to not only love our guys unconditionally, but to show them respect daily without conditions attached.
Thanks, Cassie, for encouraging us to learn about respect and grow in this area.
Gals, if this feels particularly challenging to you, ask your husband to talk with you about respect. What does respect look like to him? What feels respectful? Disrespectful?
Cassie Celestain is a wife, mom, runner and a marriage and family blogger at True Agape. She believes respect, trust, understanding and willingness creates happy marriages and families. She strives to keep those things the main focus in her daily life and wants to challenge others to do the same.
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She also has a special running this month on 20 at Home Dates. These are date plans that play into the different love languages and are designed to cultivate communication, intimacy and growth.
Prayer Prompt ♥ Ask God to help you find ways to show respect to your husband.
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