I nagged my husband yesterday.
It really wasn’t about him. It took a bit of thinking but I finally figured it out. It was about the folks that would come talk to me to get me talk to him if he didn’t get a particular thing done (I know a bit convoluted, but I’m trying to be gracious here).
I explained it to him later and then apologized for nagging (and generally being testy). He’s a big boy and will get things done when he gets them done.
I can be a big girl too and own my attitudes (and encourage people to talk to him instead of me, I’m not a courier).
The greatest day in your life and mine is when we take total responsibility for our attitudes. That’s the day we truly grow up. John C. Maxwell
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