One Thing

March 15, 2013

in the generous life

From The Generous Wife archive:

Consider the question, “What one thing could I do to make my sex life better?” 

Actually the smaller the change the better.  Why?  Because it’s do-able and even though it’s small, done consistently over time, it can effect great results. 

Why not commit to kissing your man for 10 seconds each day or try a new position once a month?  Perhaps buy one new piece of lingerie a month.  Create a personal care regimen that will leave your skin soft and very touchable.  Find a creative way to say “join me in the bedroom” each week or consider reading 2 books on sexuality this year.

Pick one thing and do it consistently.  (Mark it on your calendar if you need to.)

If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies. Author Unknown

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Gaye @CalmHealthySexy March 15, 2013 at 3:54 pm

I love this. I’m all about doing one small thing, and then another, and then another, until you’ve developed a positive pattern. It applies to creating a healthy sex life, eating well, exercising – lots of things.


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