Make a Small Change

December 17, 2011

in the generous life

Consider the question, “What one thing could I do to make my sex life better?” 

Actually the smaller the change the better.  Why?  Because it’s do-able and even though it’s small, done consistently over time, it can effect great results. 

Why not commit to kissing your man for 10 seconds each day or try a new position once a month?  Perhaps buy one new piece of lingerie a month.  Create a personal care regimen that will leave your skin soft and very touchable.  Find a creative way to say “join me in the bedroom” each week or consider reading 2 books on sexuality (aff link) this next year.

Pick one thing and do it consistently.  (Mark it on your calendar if you need to.)

If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies. Author Unknown

Image credit © Janpietruszka |


The Generous Husband is doing a series on a report from the National Marriage Project ~ Generosity – turns out it’s a big deal!  Yesterday’s post is about my favorite subject.


An encouraging testimony ~ From Sexual Brokenness to Authentic Sexual Intimacy: One Reader’s Story (from Intimacy in Marriage)


Be generous!  Lori <><
8 days ’til Christmas!

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Dawn E. December 17, 2011 at 4:29 am

I just have to say that I LOVE the quote you have at the end. You used it a couple years ago…and because of that, it’s been on my daughters nursery wall since before she was born. She brought great change to our home of boys and is all purple and butterflies (because her momma likes it!). Thank you for your wonderful encouragement each day to be generous!


The Generous Wife December 17, 2011 at 1:29 pm

I love the quote too. Many folks are afraid of change (understandable sometimes) but so many incredible things can only happen with change. That butterfly gives me an image of the joy that comes out of change (however challenging the change may be).


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