Speech Positive

November 1, 2011

in the generous life

Compliment your husband.  It’s simple and the more you do it, the easier it will become.  Your husband needs to hear that he is loved, wanted and appreciated.  Tell him often.  Let your speech be waaaay more positive than negative.

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver. Barbara De Angelis

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I just loved this post from Stupendous Marriage. 3 Ways: Cultivate Honor in Your Home  I’m the practical sort and these are straightforward practical things you can do.

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Be generous! Lori <><

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MRS Brown November 1, 2011 at 4:55 am

I really appreciated today’s thought on positive speech. What I realized after reading it is when I am diligent in encouraging my husband when he does something right and letting him know what I appreciate about him the annoying things that he does seems to diminish. It reminds me of the story of the good and bad wolf. When you feed the bad wolf of negative thoughts, impatience and discouraging words in your relationship with your husband then that wolf will run your life and prevent you from seeing what makes your husband special and the things that you love about him. If you feed the good wolf of encouragement, patience, and positive thoughts and words then that wolf will run your life and make it harder to obsess over the things that get under your skin about your husband. I want to start feeding the good wolf a nutritious and healthy diet and starve that bad wolf to death!!!

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Aja November 1, 2011 at 12:50 pm

Such a simple tip, yet so easy to forget and get bogged down in our own negative speak and co-miserating with others. I definitely need to make a point to do this more!

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