We have all communicated to our husbands what we will allow (or not) sexually (sometimes verbally, sometimes with a shrug-away). They may know not to approach our breasts from the front or that early morning sex is a no-go.
Ask yourself why you have those sexual boundaries. Are they about what is right or wrong (no, I won’t have a threesome) or are they about preference (no, I don’t like long kisses)? If they are about preferences, please reconsider. We all grow and change over time. You might find that you enjoy an activity or action now that used to bother you. For that matter, why not just stretch a bit out of love and the desire to please your sweetie. There’s a good chance that over time you would begin to associate his pleasure and enjoyment with your own.
An even bigger stretch? Why not allow your husband free access to your body? Let him touch you whenever and however he wants too (privacy allowing). Yes, he’ll be aaaaalllll over you for awhile, but you can always respond in kind.
Generosity consists not the sum given, but the manner in which it is bestowed. Author Unknown
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Be generous! Lori <><