Sexual Permissions

August 27, 2011

in the generous life

© Yuri Arcurs | Dreamstime.comWe have all communicated to our husbands what we will allow (or not) sexually (sometimes verbally, sometimes with a shrug-away).  They may know not to approach our breasts from the front or that early morning sex is a no-go.

Ask yourself why you have those sexual boundaries.  Are they about what is right or wrong (no, I won’t have a threesome) or are they about preference (no, I don’t like long kisses)?  If they are about preferences, please reconsider.  We all grow and change over time.  You might find that you enjoy an activity or action now that used to bother you.  For that matter, why not just stretch a bit out of love and the desire to please your sweetie.  There’s a good chance that over time you would begin to associate his pleasure and enjoyment with your own.

An even bigger stretch?  Why not allow your husband free access to your body?  Let him touch you whenever and however he wants too (privacy allowing).  Yes, he’ll be aaaaalllll over you for awhile, but you can always respond in kind.

Generosity consists not the sum given, but the manner in which it is bestowed. Author Unknown

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Be generous!  Lori <><

{ 2 comments… read them below or add one }

Brooke C. August 27, 2011 at 4:14 am

Sometimes I can be boring and do things for my husband because he loves it sexually. I think woman need to be reminded of this. I used to hate the things I did but surprisenly enjoy them now and also knowing he does too makes me happy. I feel like sex is So big for men. It really needs to be talked about more in the Christian community. Also it needs to be talked to for young men and woman to save themselves for marriage. Seems to be a struggle. We need help Lord. Lol. Blessings to all.


Brad August 27, 2013 at 6:43 am

I agree with Brooke. I have seen that when we have been able to discuss things, even sexual things that the topic shrinks from a mountain to a mole hill. I have seen over the years my Wife’s acceptance to discuss sex has increased a little, but not nearly enough. For so many years, whenever I brought up anything regarding sex, I was shot down with “all you think about is sex” or “I guess I should just lay in bed naked with my legs open”. Since then I have all but stopped bringing anything that could be close to sex. It is destroying me inside, but not as much as her comments.

Ladies, if your husband can gather enough courage to discuss sex with you, please, please accept his comments with using negative comebacks. It may just save your marriage.


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