My husband and I do “clean up” after church most Sundays. We pick up clipboards, wash out communion cups, help pack up, etc. I’m not sure how we ended up doing that, but it’s become a nice way to serve as a couple. It’s a generous thing and it emphasizes to us and others that we are a couple. It’s all good.
I encourage y’all to look for ways to serve with your husband. It doesn’t have to be at church (though it could be). Why not help a neighbor together or take a class on CPR together. There are so many ways to touch the world around us. Find something and do it together.
I think togetherness is a very important ingredient to family life. It’s a cliche and we use it too much but I think for a husband and wife, the way to stay close is to do things together and share. Barbara Bush
Be generous! Lori <><