Talk Positive

July 16, 2011

in the generous life

My take is that where the mouth goes, the rest of you will follow.  If you talk “sex negative” then you are likely to not be terribly interested in sex, but if you talk “sex positive” you may change your attitudes and begin to look forward to sex.  (I’m not talking about ignoring real problems, do get help.)  When you’re with friends, talk about how handsome your guy is or how much you love him.  Tell your sweetie what you love best about his body.  The next day after sex, do a little self talk and replay what was good.  It wouldn’t hurt to let your husband know what blessed you as well.  Let your mouth lead the way in a good way.

Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.

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LINKS TO BLOG POSTS THAT STOOD OUT TO ME THIS LAST WEEK:

Congratulations Kevin and Cetelia of Marriage Works! – 11 years of marriage!!!
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Engaged Marriage: Improve Your Relationship with Better Sleep – (I have a snore guard and it has made a great difference in my night life!)
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A Grown Up Marriage: Because It’s the Right Thing to Do … – a tough “dealing with your own attitudes” article inspired by The Generous Husband.
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check out the Happy Home Fairy’s new look – thanks, Angela for your generosity.
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Hot, Holy & Humorous: That Should Have Never Happened to You – encouraging article about abuse and sexual beliefs.
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(in)courage: Outward Aging, Inward Renewal – lovely encouragement!
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Intimacy in Marriage: Are You Unintentionally Killing Your Sexual Intimacy, Your Orgasm is Your Responsibility (mostly) and The 5 Cheapest Ways to Turn Your Husband On – Julie was on a roll this week, lots of good stuff.
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Journey to Surrender: And Then Some and And Then Some Part 2 – more “dealing with your own attitudes” inspired by The Generous Husband.
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Marriage Life: My Marriage is My Most Important Relationship and Permission vs. Forgiveness – boy, this is the week for attitude and integrity issues.
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One Flesh Marriage: The Sexually Confident Wife – great review of a great book. I agree, a must read.  Buy here.
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Stupendous Marriage: Are You a Victim of Domestic Violence?
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To Love, Honor & Vacuum: Talk About the Real Issue – good communication tool.

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Be generous! Lori <><

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