Study, Study, Study

May 25, 2011

in the generous life

Eye to Eye Marriage had a very nice tweet recently.

It takes a lifetime to really, truly know someone, so always strive to be a student of your spouse. Where are you at in your education?

This is something that I try to mention frequently.  If you don’t know your spouse, you won’t be able to bless them in ways that speak love to them.  Learn their Love Language. (aff link) Watch what they do, what they touch (shows what they like or are attracted to), what they say, etc.  Play question games and just be generally aware of their likes and dislikes.

Years ago I created a small notebook for this info and kept it in my purse.  It was very helpful when it came to gift giving (something I’m not always very good at).  I also kept clothing size info and a list of gifts I’d given so I didn’t duplicate.

You learn something every day if you pay attention.  Ray LeBlond

Be generous!  Lori <><

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