If you wait until later in the evening to consider sex, it’s fairly likely that you won’t feel like it. You’re busy all day with responsibilities and by the end of the day it’s hard to flip the switch and “be sexy.” Instead, try doing little things off and on during the day to remind yourself that you are sexual and give yourself a chance at enjoying sex later with your husband. Call, email or text you husband with a sexy comment (do be careful with this if he is at work, perhaps come up with some code words). Take a couple of moments during the day to baby yourself and enjoy something sensual. Rub on some of your favorite body lotion or sit and enjoy a cup of tea. Make a point of remembering the last time you had and enjoyed sex (give yourself permission to be sexual) or think about the things you love about your husband.
My beloved is to me a sachet of myrrh resting between my breasts. My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms from the vineyards of En Gedi. Song of Songs 1:13-14 NIV
Be generous! Lori <><