Awhile back, when visiting friends, a few folks were having a friendly competition with the Wii. (aff link) It was hilarious (I don’t think I will ever look at my friends in quite the same way). Competition can get mean, but if you add a bit of silliness, it can make it fun and help the losers have as much fun as the winners. I encourage you to invite your husband to some silly competition. Try playing a game where you win Skittles candies instead of points or have a (private) wrestling match where the winner gets to pick the movie or what position you make love in.
You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation. Plato
Be generous! Lori <><