When you are struggling, what do you need from your husband? Understanding? A hug? Prayer? A sounding board or help with a problem?
I’m willing to bet that our husbands could use the same thing. This is a case of “know your husband” so that you can offer what he needs, but if you don’t know, perhaps a simple, “I’d love to help or encourage you, what can I do?” might do. Just understand that your husband would love to have you walk with him and encourage him (rather than discourage or put him down for his struggles).
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 NIV
Be generous! Lori <><