Ever find yourself at odds with your husband over the way something should be done? Reality is there are any number of ways to do a given thing. Some ways are better than others, but often there are a few ways that are reasonable and it boils down to preferences. Why not listen to your guy and give his way a try. Worst case scenario is that it doesn’t work and you have to try something else.
It feels very disrespectful to have someone continually shoot down your way of doing things (and it’s an easy thing to do around the house when you do most of the work there). Your husband’s perspective, though different, may actually bring a fresh perspective. That’s a good thing for you and listening to and considering his perspective shows a bit of respect for him.
As we grow as unique persons, we learn to respect the uniqueness of others. Robert Schuller
Be generous! Lori <><