Begin With the End in Mind

February 13, 2011

in the generous life

*** Gals, tomorrow is Valentine’s Day.  Do whatever sneaking around you need to do today, so that your plans to romance your husband are simple and doable tomorrow. ***

Begin with the end in mind. This is something that was suggested as a coaching tool.  Consider, if you will, what you want your husband to know or think at the end of your lives.  It’s surprising the feelings (and expressed values) that can filter to the surface of your thoughts.  Things like “I want him to know that I love him.” or “I want him to know how much I have loved being married to him.” “I’m proud of him.” or “He needs to know how special he is and that he’s a great husband.”  If these things are true and of value to you, how do you need to live your life now so that you can communicate these truths and values to him?

Love is not blind – it sees more, not less.  But because it sees more, it is willing to see less.  Julins Gordon

Be generous!  Lori <><

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Ellen February 14, 2011 at 7:47 am

Thanks for this wonderful post.
I want to ask something if its a great idea that my husband and I wants to find cheap hotels and enjoy some moments alone, away from work and other stressful things. Valentines should be special.

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