Take a piece of scratch paper and write down as many things as you can think of that you and your husband have in common. Do you like the same kinds of food? Common interests or hobbies? Do you both like travel or quiet nights at home? Do you like movies, reading, or tennis?

Plan some couple time around what you both like. (If you can't think of much, then consider trying something new in hopes of finding additional areas of common interest.)

How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives... Annie Dillard

Be generous!  Lori <><