Consider as a resolution to get away as a couple once every 2-3 months. Yes, I know there are a billion reasons why this is difficult, but this one-on-one time can be incredibly rejuvenating, both individually and as a couple.
Sleep late. Make love. Go see a movie. Go for a walk. Talk about important stuff. Talk about silly stuff. Kiss a lot. Reconnect.
(To cut the cost, take your own food and use hotels during off season (or house sit for a friend). ~ One time when we couldn't afford to go away, we got a friend to take our kid for a couple of days, closed the curtains, turned on the answering machine and had a holiday at home. It can be done. Sometimes you just need to be a little creative.)
(Remember, when you break a resolution, don't throw it away, just get back up and start again.)
... Let us spend the night in the villages. Let us rise early and go to the vineyards ... Song of Songs 7:11b-12a NAS
Be generous! Lori <><