Be willing to consider your husband’s perspective. Generally speaking, there are a number of ways that a given thing can be done. If your husband wants to do something a certain way because it makes better sense to him or is more convenient for him, why not? Do voice any concerns, of course, but make room for his perspectives, choices, etc. They are as valid as your own and need to be given consideration too, especially where they effect his time and energy.
The reverse side also has a reverse side. Japanese Proverb
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