I have a notebook that I carry around in my purse.
It's beginning to have a bit of a reputation (my husband and friends notice how often I scribble something down in it). I jot down sermon notes, addresses, Generous Wife ideas, book recommendations, prayer requests and more. It's become a wonderful tool and is a help in so many ways. I don't lose important information. It's become a place to go for ideas. Things don't slip away in the busyness of the day. They get written down to read and consider later when I have a quiet moment.
I encourage y'all to do likewise. Get a notebook and put it where you can get to it often. When your husband mentions something he likes, write it down. When someone shares a vacation idea, write it down. Write down your prayers. Take notes from the books you read. It's amazing the wealth that will collect there, that can be used to bless your loved ones and bring order to the ideas that flow through your life.
This is my answer to the gap between ideas and action - I will write it out. Hortense Calisher
Here is the second part of the Stupendous Marriage Interview with Marriage Author Sheila Wray Gregoire. (of To Love, Honor & Vacuum)
Articles like this really encourage me. I've had my own struggles and I have a hunger to see people set free. Waking Up From Someone Else’s Dream Be yourself. You are wonderful. (from (in)courage)
Be generous! Lori <><
Lately it seems that I've heard a number of gals say something like, "I'm just not sexual." At first thought, I wanted to let them know (graciously of course) that they were believing a lie. After more thought, though, I realized that while a few may be actually denying their own sexuality, most were making a statement about rejecting a specific idea of what sexuality is. They didn't like any particular sexual model that they had seen, so they assumed that they were not sexual. ("I'm not like the ladies in the movies, I'm not like my friends, ... I guess I'm just not sexual.")
My husband and I were talking to a couple last night and somehow in the conversation I wound up saying, "Be proactive about problems in your marriage. If you have a struggle with something, don't ignore it. That's the kind of thing that will jump up and bite you later if you don't deal with it."
Food is interesting. 
I think large romantic gestures are great, but they can take quite a bit of time, energy and (usually) money. While that's OK, you need more than the occasional grand romantic gesture to keep your marriage strong. Here are three fairly simple and easy ways to build a little romance into everyday life.
Years ago when God started teaching me about generosity, I started living it out first with my husband. I didn't do a perfect job because I was learning, but somehow I don't think my husband minded because he was blessed by my attempts at generosity. He was my very special guinea pig (test subject), and continues to be.
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